The Surprising Science of “Just Playing”


Hey Reader!

“He just plays all day. Aren’t you supposed to be getting him ready for kindergarten?” If you’ve heard this question - or maybe even asked it yourself - today’s newsletter is for you!

Here’s the truth: play IS learning—and the science behind it is stronger than ever.

Below are five quick reminders that help us see play the way young children experience it.

1. Play = Brain Fertilizer

Play isn’t a break from learning—it’s the best state for it.

  • Joy + choice (“agency”) light up the brain for learning.
  • Positive experiences in play create “hooks” the brain returns to later.
  • Hands-on discovery builds long-term memory.
  • Just like being read to creates warm associations with books, play creates warm associations with learning.

2. Growth Happens in Cascades, Not Straight Lines

Young children don’t grow in neat, predictable steps.

  • They develop in bursts—physically, socially, emotionally, and cognitively.
  • That’s why one-size-fits-all lesson plans rarely work.
  • Play naturally meets children where they are, not where a curriculum script says they should be.

3. Real Kindergarten Readiness = Soft Skills

Kindergarten teachers consistently value:

  • Asking for help
  • Sharing and taking turns
  • Communicating needs
  • Problem-solving with peers
  • Managing simple self-help tasks

These skills cannot be taught with worksheets—they are practiced and mastered through play.

4. Letting Kids Act Their Age Helps Them Grow Faster

Children thrive when we let them be exactly who they are developmentally.

  • A fully supported 3-year-old becomes a prepared 4-year-old.
  • Pushing skills too soon doesn’t accelerate growth—it can hinder it.
  • Respecting developmental timelines builds confidence, joy, and true readiness.

***This doesn’t mean that teachers in play-based classrooms are “just watching.”

As the teacher, you are:

  • Observing
  • Documenting
  • Listening
  • Collecting meaningful evidence of learning
  • Using that data to scaffold/support each child’s growth

It’s ongoing assessment—authentic, child-centered, and incredibly rich.

Play may look simple, but it’s the deepest, most meaningful work of early childhood. When we protect time for joyful, child-led play, we’re not slowing children down—we’re giving them exactly what their brains need to flourish.

You can explore this concept even more in this week’s podcast episode with Kris Ramos. Just click the graphic below!

Cheering you on this week!

-Your ECCN team

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